Jude Ndifor Fru - Online Memorial Website

Jude, your time with us was cut short and you will be missed tremendously. I still remember the day I was told you were sick and I couldn't believe it. I still can't believe you are gone but I know that you are with our Father who loves you very much and you are with papa as well.

Mami, Justin, Francis and Fide, my heart goes out to all of you and I pray for the Lord's blessing to overflow and give you the strength to carry on.

Goodbye Jude, til we meet again.

Mimi

May words of comfort rest gently upon your heart, and in time may they become words of healing.

Though many years have gone by,i still remember your calm and loving nature.It's sad to know you left so soon but i trust the good Lord has you in a better place.R.I.P.Jude. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort your family now and in the days ahead.You guys are not alone.Though miles away,we have you all in prayers.

Jude,

You came to work and without proper notification, you left.  I am glad that I got the message that you had to leave and that you found a better place.  I wish I knew that you were leaving so that I could have been present to see you go, to provide you with the support we sometimes need, and the moment to talk before you left.

Sometimes it is hard to say goodbye and I would have had a hard time saying goodbye, so I am glad that you decided to leave the message that you had to go.

 I will never forget your quietness, kindness, and your excellent work ethics because people like you are hard to find.  I found out many good things about you and I am glad that you chose Memorial Hermann Memorial City Hospital as your preferred place to work. 

I hope that your transition into your new place was not hard and that it did not create any hardship because a person like you deserves only the best.  I want you to know that we will always remember you for your genuine kindness and your professional contribution here at the hospital. 

Sometimes we wonder why certain things happen to good people and why the best of people leave us so sudden but we are not here to determine when and why.  It seems to me that I just recently saw you in the hallway in passing and without any notice, heard about your sudden good-bye.  I never really had a moment to talk with you or even developed a relationship with you, but all I could hear around me is all good things about you and the many people who you have surprised by leaving so suddenly. 

The reason I probably did not get to have a conversation with you at work was due to your work hours and your excellent people skills and competency that there was no need for us to meet because of work situations.   I have heard many good things about you, and I wish I knew you personally, because people like you with great personality and poise is usually the type of person that people want in their circle. 

I know you have probably heard who I am through my daughter Kaye and Amy because they were in your circle of friends, but I hope that my brief introduction indirectly is sufficient for you to know that you were someone that I would have like to know.  I wish that your leaving was planned, and I could have made the effort to spend some time to get to know you as my children have made the connection with you. 

I hope that in your preparation to leave us you had many people around you and that your last moment with us was not disappointing and hurt.  We miss your presence here at the hospital because we know your value and contribution.  However, we understood that you had to leave because you have completed all your work and your shift was over.  Goodbye!

 

SLY B........you will say DRQ....

It's so curious:  one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief.  But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses.. I lost my mum you stood by me now you and the grieving is so fresh as yesterday...Why,,While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates. I must wait till it be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it,still it will not...Grief is a species of idleness. As long as I can I will look at this world for both of us.  As long as I can I will laugh with the birds, I will sing with the flowers, I will pray to the stars, for both of us. 

Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal...you have gone but shall always be fresh in our memories..

It hurts,it hurts,Time is a physician that heals every grief.but yours will never.

its just for now.

bye bye SLY B.

Quentin ayuk-takem(DRQ)

May your soul rest in perfect peace. We pray the family find love and comfort in the bosom of the Almighty during these trying times. May God Bless.

Jude was a friend and a brother. He was my classmate in SASSE.He was a very nice and friendly guy. May his soul rest in peace. I will like to extend my heartfelt condolences to his entire family.

 

      I can't believe you left so soon, it's true what they said, the good once don't last long. I still can't take myself to delete Ur # from my contact list. I could still hear u sing our song, to let me kwon who is on the line when you call with unkwon #. I can't question God why although I will luv to, He knows best why He took you away from us @ this moment. May the Spirit which descended on Pentecost day to the Apostles; on the day you departed to visit our Heavenly Father guide your journey to Him all through the way.  For I believe, you will be resting in His Kingdom reciting your Rosary for u and for our sake. Have a very Save and spiritual ride to our Heaven Father.

     May your soul rest in the peace of our Lord, Amen!

 

Jude, it’s true we never met you, but your brother Fidelis, our friend, talked so nicely of you and was very proud of you. We held same memories of you, not withstanding that we never met. Thus the news of your illness and death was a big shock to us.

Although you are no more, the memories of you will never die. Let all your family take heart and be consoled by the fact that you lived a fulfilled life, achieving what many of your peers could never achieve within the short period here on earth.

Death is only a transition, which we must all pass through. So God be with you till we meet again.

REST IN THE BOSOM OF THE LORD.

Oh Jude, it is sad to hear about your departure from this world where you were very loved by your family, friends and others. You have left a very big hole in the family that loved you so much. Although they loved you so much, the Lord loved you most. It is hard to think that you are gone but we are consoled by the fact that you have gone to the Lord. You are gone but your spirit is still with us. I did not get to know you personally but i could feel your spirit from your humble brother Fide. may the Lord give your family the strength to cope with your early departure. May the take courage, knowing that you have gone the get a place ready for us. Fide, my very humble friend i  would like to say may you and the family have the Lords' strength to help you get through this difficult period. May Jude rest in Peace.

Gone to soon. I dont know if i will stop crying. U gone to soon. At the end of the day I know God plan is the best. Peace perfect peace. You were a great brother and a friend. Hope that u have gone to prepare a place for us all. Love u

Jude u will forever missed by all who loved and cared for u up untill our Heavenly Father has called u home. I ask why now, but only him (God) knows. Jude i know u are sitting at God's righthand and u are smiling down to us. John14:1-4 "do not let ur hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, i would have told u. I am going to prepare a place for u and if i go and prepare a place for u, i will come back and take u to be with me that u also may be where iam, u know the way to the place where iam going.

My thoughts & prayers goes out to d family and especially Mary Nkwain be strong in d Lord.

 

We have lost an Angel with a good heart full of love laughter anytime you see him even when it is so busy at work you never see him sad, very hard working when l ask him if he has taking a break   his answer  will be   (for were work is not done) who know why this happened so soon l cannot believe how live can change in a single blink  you will highly be missed may God console your families and may your soul rest in perfect peace with the lord and the rest of the other Angels  Amen.

Good people always shine and you were one of those who did shine. You will be sincerely missed and indeed we know you are in a better place Jude. May the Soul of the Faithful Departed Rest in Peace, AMEN.

Jude, I remember one of the last times we met in Mutengene. I was always happy to be around you because you made me laugh and happy. Yes, I was hoping to see you in Bundes. When I read Fide's mail I felt a pain in my heart, which I still cannot explain. I only felt this pain once in my life. The pain of loosing a child. I felt for your mum. She comforted me once. I cried, but abruptly stopped and thanked God for your short life. It was a wonderful one. I will miss you very badly, you cannot understand. Aunty, I know you cannot remember, but know that I am comforting you like you did for me when I needed one. Francis, Fide and Justin I will pray for you and of course for Jude and Uncle. RIP my darling brother.

Yes! Jude is gone, hard to take in that whole truth.But because we are God fearing and believe in the God whom we serve and from whom all good things come, we will accept it.It's been such a while since i heard from Jude but despite that, memories of Sasse college will always dominate whichever memories we got.Because back then, men whom we are today were simply college boys.Jude, easy heart and good natured.In those very few words i describe my friend and classmate.Because you touched so many lifes on your way through this earth coupled with your easy heart and good nature how can we ever forget you Jude...Jude is dead, yet he lives. GOD Bless Us All.

CIVILIZATION IS A PLACE WERE MAN RISE AND FALL LIKE THE WINTER WHEAT. THE DAWN BRINGS NEW RAYS EVERY DAY YET THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO RISE EVERY DAY AND BRING TO LIFE,CHERISHED MEMORIES,TEACHING AND FAITH THAT HELP US SAIL THE JOURNEY OF LIFE.
 MAY THE ALMIGHTY GOD BLESS HIS SOUL AND COMPLETE ALL HIS WISHES.
           OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU, AND WE ARE SHARING THE BURDEN OF THIS GREAT GRIEF. MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU.

 MAY GOD BLESS JUDE,S SOUL.

WITH LOVE AND SYMPATHY, ADIOS BRO.

Dear Jay,

 

I promised calling you but as they say man proposes but God disposes. I can't stop regretting that simple mistake. I am trying to say something but I still have not found the words. I still want to call you but I do not have your new number. I spoke to Mami and she said you were resting. I will send you an email and hope you find time to read it.

I don't understand anything yet but I wish I  could hug you and tell you what a wondeful person you are.

Adieu bruv

I know we will meet to part no more.

 

May your soul find eternal rest in the Lord. To the family, the lord will surely give you the strength to go through these trying moments. It shall be well.