Jude I remember how we used to call each other (ma strong man) I don’t even know how to start, because it is so hard sometimes I want to ask God, why did Jude ma strong man? You were so kind, sincere, generous, supportive, very funny …. Like a brother I will call you for advice in regards to my relationship and you will advise me so sincere that I will be happy again. You were the only one I could open up to I couldn’t trust anyone else to advise me .you will talk to me from a brother’s point of view. I still have the pic of you in the hospital when you were naming all the medication you on to me and the ones you could not name you describe them and at one point, you joke to me laughing, you said “ Delphine, some shot de wey them de gi me every morning I hate tam bad” . The way u joked is was so funny and I said to myself I like your sense of humor. Even as you are sick you still tried to make me laugh.
You help me with my financial aid application from HCC to Lamar university the distance did not stopped you from helping me.
When I finish school you gave me an advice ( Delphine you still have friends who are struggling call and pay a friends phone bill once in a while ) Jude you had a good and soft heart.
Ma strong man we love you but God love more because he received you on a special Sunday a day filled with the Holy Spirit. R.I.P my friend and bro. you will be missed dearly.
jude
you will always be my Big Dog (ruf ruf ) like u always so jokingly said
Where do I Start....do I start by saying you were the only man who
never forgot my bday or you were one of the few who tell me bluntly to face that you don't like my hair coz it makes me look older...I remember the accident that almost took my life, I didn't have car, u would live TSU and pick me up from HCC everyday I had a class until I completely heal or that u. Wouldn't let me drive the White Volkswagen Jetta coz u made fun of me for not being able to drive a stick shift car...I could go on and on...the only guy I knew who knew how to cook Ekwang from scratch...remember how defensive I would be everytime u call me I small girl and u will be laughing...those memories are like yesterday...I wrote down ur bday 6months early this time around coz u were so mad at me for not calling you on ur bday in 2008...I was Planning to Call u this time around One Week Early...Jay I cant hold back the tears..the only time u used my name Gina is when u mad at me...it was too Sudden Jay...remember u promised me barbecues this summer....Am only comforted knowing you are in Heaven were the.no pain or tears....I know deep in my heart you are looking down on us smiling....I will endlessly miss you Jay.
JUDE.ITS SAD I HAD TO CALL JUSTIN TODAY AND ITS YOUR NUMBER WHICH CAME ON, ITS SO SAD,ITS HARD TO BELIEVE YOU ARE GONE,HARD TO LET GO THE GOOD TIMES WE SPEND TOGETHER.THINKING OF WHEN YOU MISS THE CAR FROM 5HOUSES TO SCHOOL AND YOU RUN TO MEET US AT HOUSE 5 USING THE ORCHAD ROAD AND ASHERI WAS ALWAYS KEEPING SEAT FOR YOU.REMEMBER THE GOOD OLD SUNDAYS AFTER GOLF WHEN WE SIT AND EAT THE ROASTED CHICKEN PREPARE BY MR BONIFACE AND CHE WAS ON YOUR SIDE.
,,GOOD THINGS DONT LAST,,
SLEEP WELL MY DEAR BROTHER............IT SHALL BE WELL-
I can't tell where I met you first; two places come in mind, @ church or financial aid office. I remember once it was Delphine's birth day and we had a birth day party of three for her and you made some fish and fruit salad, the grapes were so big you had to cut them in half OMG was it tasteful or what. We had a great time that day. Also, it was one of you birth days that I bought my first alcohol; I just turn 21yrs 12 days before your birth day. So I called you to ask what a good wine to buy is; you told me to buy anything; ignorance as I was, I bought one with high alcohol volume and when you had it, it was very strong and after the first sip you were screaming wao! "Why did you get this?" And I said you told me to get any wine so I did. Every Sunday when we go to church you always wait at the back of the church after mass for us to chat or buy some key chain or Rosary ring which you worn so proudly. I was telling my friends I don’t think I have ever given you a hand shake. I will remember you always and know you are happy, peaceful and at rest.
See you when we meet at our Father's Kingdom. Good bye my man.
